"Hard Bargain"

In Grey's Anatomy's 15th episode, I did not find a lot of interesting themes. However, TRUST and CARE are two themes that struck my interest.
In the episode, Cristina Yang (Sandra Oh) is told by her friend to keep Owen Hunt in the dark regarding the sale of the hospital. She is in two minds. She does not want to betray her friends, but at the same time she does not want to lie to the man she loves (though they are divorced). At first, she gets really pissed when Meredith Grey (Ellen Pompeo) asks her to lie to Owen. She gets really mad! But then, she realizes that Owen is in big troubles, and burnout because he is struggling with administration stuff to keep the hospital open. That's when she decides to change her mind.

She does not want to lie, because she is afraid that Owen looses faith in her. He TRUSTS her too much and she feels really bad lying to him. I feel like women often feel the urge to be honest because it seems to be in their GENES. Especially, when they love a man. This is not a cliche, but it is a characteristic common to a lot of women.
It is weird though because Cristina is the "hardcore girl" of the crew. She often shows no interest in others. She is only concerned with herself and her career. I get the impression that she is holding back feelings! She does not know how to show some love to those she loves.In this episode, I was impressed because she actually showed she CARES.

Haven't you guys noticed that women are always portrayed as the ones that care the most, and men as the careless ones?

That is the only thing that appealed to me in the episode.
Shonda Rhimes might be running out of inspiration!!!!!!